If, like me, you are often throwing your hands up in the air as you organise school lunch boxes, with internal conflict raging about balancing health, ultra processing, the environmental, cost, convenience, child satisfaction and the inevitable schoolyard lunchbox comparison, please read this, I get it and can help.
You may wonder, why as a Melbourne Paediatric Dietitian, this isn’t coming more easily to me. I too am competing with packeted teddy-shaped biscuits and uniform, sticky golden bars that are marketed to us and our children as perfect lunch box choices and the ultimate preference for children. I’d like my kids to have a balanced lunch box but not feel like they are ‘missing out’. So how to achieve this Holy Grail?
My children are now 13 and 15, so I’ve been making lunch boxes for a while, and now the kids are responsible for packing their own. We’ve been through a bit of a journey with this one. Lately I had to regroup as my son had braces fitted which meant we had to think carefully about the foods he could tolerate (soft, easy to chew, also health). These are the things I have learnt over time.

Fight the good fight:
- Yes, it is worth having standards about how the lunch box is built. Try to include fruit and vegetables, some dairy, a main item such as a sandwich, wrap or last night’s dinner. The benefits for your children’s growth, learning, mood, concentration and development are exponential. There will inevitably be comparisons with friend’s lunch boxes, and this can be a platform for productive conversation about the foods we need to grow healthy and strong, and what balance can look like in your home.
Start early and keep going:
- Habits build in early childhood, so be heartened that sending the kinder lunch box packed full of colour and balanced choices makes a difference. If things have slipped a little over time, don’t despair, it is never too late to make positive change.
- As parents we can create a supportive and positive food environment to make healthy choices easier.
Include sometimes foods, sometimes.
- If the everyday lunch box is containing treat foods (chips, biscuits, lollies) think about winding it back to perhaps alternate days to begin with, or a couple of times per week. The rest of the time, replace these foods with healthier options.
- Consider healthier or less frequent lunch orders: what are the options at the school canteen
Be prepared:
- I have succumbed to some packaged snacks as a baseline. Why? Ultimately, I know if cheese is there on the block and yoghurt in a 2kg tub, they won’t take it and head off to school with minimal items in the lunch box. So, they go hungry or end up purchasing a large bag of treat foods on the way home (now that they have a bit of pocket money and independence), or an enormous afternoon tea that crashes into their dinner appetite. Sound familiar? So, it’s a cost vs benefit scenario. Where possible, I choose yoghurts, cheese sticks, popcorn, fruit in natural juice, roasted fava beans and occasional muesli bars.
Chop up a variety of vegetables at the beginning of the week:
- Carrot (sticks or grated), cucumber, capsicum, cherry tomatoes, green beans, snow peas, etc. Make it easy to grab and throw into the lunch box for both children and adults).
Fruit:
- Seasonal options and fruit canned in natural juice
- Sometimes dried fruit
Add ‘healthier’ baked goods:
- No sugar or sugar reduced muffins (honey, brown sugar, coconut sugar, maple syrup are all the same). Choose one and reduce it or use fruit to sweeten the recipe.
- Use wholemeal flour to completely or partially replace white flour.
- E.g. raspberry and pear tea cakes
- Bake with the kids, or if they are old enough, delegate.
- Protein balls: peanut butter cacao or nut-free cacao and sesame or store bought (e.g. Tom & Luke)
Sick of the sandwich?
- Double batch dinner, e.g. fried rice, spaghetti bolognaise, chilli con carne and send in a thermos for lunch
- Homemade pizzas on wholemeal pita bread or a simple dough with ¼ cup Greek yoghurt and ½ cup wholemeal flour mixed per base, plus toppings such as passata, cheese, sliced vegetables, lean ham.
- Wraps are great with falafel or shredded BBQ chicken, salad mix, hummus or cheese
Send enough food and don’t stress if it’s not all eaten:
- Children will have hungry and less hungry days. If the lunch box comes home, re-offer components as afternoon tea.
- If vegetables come back without being eaten, take heart, acceptance can take a long time of ongoing exposure. Offer vegetables with afternoon tea with cheese, hummus or avocado dip.
Snacks for days:
- Homemade (can be stored for days in an airtight container) or storebought popcorn, e.g. Cob’s lightly salted
- Cheese: cubed, shredded, sticks, cheese stringers if it means some protein and calcium to their day
- Cheese and crackers
- Hummus or dip and crackers
- Yoghurt pouches: add an ice block or even freeze overnight for warmer months. Try to choose lower sugar options (Tamar Valley, Jalna, ALDI Brooklea)
- Small cans baked beans or 4 bean mix
- Roasted chickpeas or fava beans
- Dried fruit
- Nuts if school permits and the child is over 5 years.
- Avocado and crackers
- Corn on the cob
- Mountain bread with cream cheese or ricotta and honey
- Nut and dairy free muesli bars
- Bliss balls, above.
- Baked goods, above.
Make it fun:
- The ideas that seem to fly in our place are variety, encouraging children’s input into ideas (e.g. make a list and stick it on the fridge), lots of little containers so that each time they open one it’s a guess)
- Try to plan and shop for the lunch box on the weekend or at the beginning of the week
- Get them involved. No matter the age, they can help. Choosing foods from the fridge, chopping, putting into the lunch box, assisting with cooking help to build to the penultimate; cooking a meal for the week.
And lastly: Avoid perfect:
- We are all doing our best balancing multiple balls in the air.
- Try making small steps towards improved lunch boxes rather than aiming for perfection
- Change takes time and works best when the whole family is on board
- A Vegemite sandwich is totally, totally fine. Try to use wholemeal or seeded bread, add some fruit, veg, dairy and we have that elusive balance.
More articles about healthy lunch boxes can be found here.
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